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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 11:54:30 GMT -5
Ok im in sort of a sticky situation right now
and this will most likly be my first post where i have put in most of my time into it and its a hard subject for me to even talk to ppl about
So here i go..This is the short version of my situation and i want your opinions on what i should do about it.
Ok right theres a girl that i like/liked(not sure where i am right now) i asked her out 1 night and she said yea but heres the thing shes been avoiding me since then and shes now apparently going out with som1 else so im in a hard situation
because i still like her but im not really sure at all really
heres my options on what i could do
1. Give her a phone call and ask what the fuck is going on
2. If she does have a new Boyfriend Dressup as a Chav and beat him up so som1 else gets blamed
3. or just forget it and take my rage out on som1 else
what do you guys think i should do feel free to add some suggestions
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Post by sergio517 on Oct 3, 2005 12:01:39 GMT -5
I would reccommend asking her in person why she did what she did. You need to know from the source.
I don't think the guy she may be with has any fault in the matter so he is not the blame.
Talk to the girl. Use good judgement and tell yourself...."is she worth the trouble or is she just trouble?"
We all sometimes tend to like someone who is not worth it in the long run. Think about this with any girl you go out with.......
"what if this relationships lasts?" "Do I really want her forever?" "Is she the one?"
Sometimes relationships are new, but you have to always keep an open mind and think ahead. In the moment, a girl may be hot and sexy, but in the long run you will see her true colors and what she's made of.
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 12:25:12 GMT -5
I would reccommend asking her in person why she did what she did. You need to know from the source. I don't think the guy she may be with has any fault in the matter so he is not the blame. Talk to the girl. Use good judgement and tell yourself...."is she worth the trouble or is she just trouble?" We all sometimes tend to like someone who is not worth it in the long run. Think about this with any girl you go out with....... "what if this relationships lasts?" "Do I really want her forever?" "Is she the one?" Sometimes relationships are new, but you have to always keep an open mind and think ahead. In the moment, a girl may be hot and sexy, but in the long run you will see her true colors and what she's made of. hey hey!! Now that's a good advice/suggestions!! Same with me here..I would talk to her in person! NOt on the phone..never use the phone in this situation! That is all I have to say cuz what I have to say is been said and done!
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Post by Fuzzy Penguin on Oct 3, 2005 12:34:05 GMT -5
I have never encountered this situation but i would have to say: talk to her in person cause on the phone, you cant see if she is tellin the truth and she could hang up naytime.
@sergio: You are acting as if it is hard to find someone thts hot and has a good personality. Most of my freinds and my girlfreind have a really great personality and are good lookin. But hey, i dont care. Oh, and those questions are the ones tht you should always refer to in these situations, so good thinkin serge.
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 12:35:30 GMT -5
so from the info i have read so far i should arrange with her to meet up an talk through this prediciment
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 12:42:43 GMT -5
so from the info i have read so far i should arrange with her to meet up an talk through this prediciment Yeah Talk to her ASAP so this situation would be solved! But To ME:(not to sound rude, just my opinion. Aightz?) Well this gurl might not like you to just keep avoiding you when you just asked her out. She must be scared to hurt your feelings and scared to tell you this that's why she's avoiding you. One or two of my friends that are gurls do this and tell me..And they tell me to tell that guy..Dang I hate that! The reason is that they're just too nice to hurt a guys feelings..They feel really bad if they turn down a guy. Well that's just my opinion man!
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Post by sergio517 on Oct 3, 2005 12:43:02 GMT -5
It is hard in most cases. From my high school experiences.....a lot of the hot girls were either into drugs, were slutty, had boyfriends but hung out with other guys and touched around playing with them too much. Also, they may have bad personalities or bad judgment. I'm not saying that they don't exist because they do. I found that out myself with my girl of 4 and 1/2 years. But basically, attraction comes from hotness and sexiness first....it is that reason that we start to like someone. Then we go into finding out personality. Most people people start off that way and not vice versa. but yeah fuzz, hot girls with great personalities do exists. It also depends on where these girls grow up and how they are raised. The ghetto girls usually are into themselves and are slutty to an extent or an extreme. so from the info i have read so far i should arrange with her to meet up an talk through this prediciment Exactly Corporal. Talk it out. Maybe through the conversation she will admit fault or you will learn the type of girl she is through her words.
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 12:47:36 GMT -5
It also depends on where these girls grow up and how they are raised. The ghetto girls usually are into themselves and are slutty to an extent or an extreme. TRUE!! Very True!! ANd it also depends on who she hangs out with!!! Or who she's always with!
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 13:24:52 GMT -5
ANd it also depends on who she hangs out with!!! Or who she's always with! Yea that is a thing aswell cus she has changed who shge hangs around with i talk to her m8`s more then she does cus she has new friends or somthing like that anyway
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 13:45:12 GMT -5
ANd it also depends on who she hangs out with!!! Or who she's always with! Yea that is a thing aswell cus she has changed who shge hangs around with i talk to her m8`s more then she does cus she has new friends or somthing like that anyway Yeah...I guess she got influenced by her new friends or something..
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 13:47:55 GMT -5
yea most likly if i break her from the chain tempuarily i could get some sence put in her head basiclly saying "theres your real m8`s the ppl who were there for you at school etc......not these new ppl who dont give a shit "
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 13:52:27 GMT -5
yea most likly if i break her from the chain tempuarily i could get some sence put in her head basiclly saying "theres your real m8`s the ppl who were there for you at school etc......not these new ppl who dont give a shit " Exactly!! Yup!! If only you can do that!! And only if she realizes that! Man I hope she does!
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 13:55:20 GMT -5
(off topic: this is my first ever serious topic here)
and i hope she does relise that aswell before she loses all her real mates becasue of her new crowd isnt good at all there all chavs and shit apparently
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 3, 2005 14:35:32 GMT -5
(off topic: this is my first ever serious topic here) and i hope she does relise that aswell before she loses all her real mates becasue of her new crowd isnt good at all there all chavs and shit apparently Yea I hope so too!! I don't want her to realize at the end that she losts all her real friends..You must talk to her Corp!! Atleast try to make her see what she doesn't see!
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 3, 2005 14:53:10 GMT -5
yea even if me and her wouyldent work out i would still like to help her get back to reality and relise her friends are worried as hell bout her
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