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Post by Enigma on Oct 11, 2005 17:29:15 GMT -5
First off I'm moving this. It just took me no less than 10 minutes to get to the fucking thing. I'm really sick of the damn "too many connections" thing. If people don't like me moving it...well just say, and see what happens, lol. I'll be back with a new post to get things off my chest in a bit.
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Post by Enigma on Oct 11, 2005 17:45:33 GMT -5
Okay well after another 6 !too many connections" I'll post again. That thing is really winding me up, I don't mind once, twice, three times but six is taking the piss. Typical the day I come on it's clogged with fucking morons, posting about their favorite women, having a toss with one hand while typing crap with the other Anyway, if I have not just pissed off Code: X members everywhere, I will continue. Well, people may have noticed I been gona a bit (probably not, but just pretend to care). Well I've been trying my best at homw, and with my wife. I don't mind saying things have been a bit rocky recently mostly due to me. I'm man enough to admit it, I did not help the situation, infact it was probably my fault. So I've tried to make ammends. And it seemed to work. I have been not drinking (since my wife really hates the amount I drink) and have tried my very best with anger, ect. Honestly guys I tried, I could not be nicer if I were a Mormon....But alas I guess I failed. Well i made a meal for us all tonight, and tried to accomodate her. I even suffered Top of the Pops and fucking pop music in general (without any kind of sedative or alchohol I may add). But I guess thats not enough. I'm still wrong. I'm still an idiot. I'm still a faliure....happy eh? So she went up to bed, I went to the off-liscense and got 24 beers and here we are again. Horraay. That feels better. I apologise for being negative but I have very little outlets for this pain so I feel better writing it down. I'm not trying to get attention (though feel free to add your comments, good or bad) and I'm not trying for sympathy or to make anyone feel good. This is simply an outlet for my emotions.
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Post by ©orporal Hicks™ on Oct 12, 2005 4:18:46 GMT -5
man quite a bad situation your in man there isnt much i can say or do to help at all becasue i have never been in that situation and honestly im having my own probs right now aswell lol all these probs always happen to good ole beer drinkers who have done nothing bad to the world. anyways if you want man keep us posted on your situation etc only if you want to anyway
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Post by F-U_Six_One_9 on Oct 12, 2005 11:16:28 GMT -5
Wow Enigma you really LOVE your wife! Not drinking (your fav. hobby! lol j/k!) and listening to pop music (which I guess you hate.) Wow! Just amazing what you do for your wife. Well man to be honest I do that for my gf too.(not the drinking part and not the same type of music but something close to that) and yup guess what? I'm still wrong. Geez!! Well I guess that's life. Guys are always wrong! Woman, Can't live with 'em, Can't live without 'em! *sign!*
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DaAfroMan
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Emotions are pointless. PtCHaaaa!!!!
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Post by DaAfroMan on Oct 13, 2005 19:24:29 GMT -5
LMAO!!!! Oops... *shuts up and rivits mouth shut*
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Post by Enigma on Oct 14, 2005 7:05:32 GMT -5
Lmao, it's okay I'm happy again (well kinda). Your right FU, women don't understand us very well I don't think. Not like it takes a genius to figure us out. A guy pretty much wants only 2 things, lol. I'll leave it to your imagination to what those are.
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Post by sergio517 on Oct 14, 2005 7:22:34 GMT -5
food and sex lol.
Sorry for not popping in here before Enigma. I don't frequent this side of Code X.
So are you feeling better?
Well what can I say that will be good advice? I don't know. I have had a good relationship with my girl. 4 1/2 years and counting. She was 15 and I 16. Now i'm 21 and she's 20 and I have taught her a lot about how guys are and why I don't want her EVER interacting with them. You can relate i'm sure that guys are bad news. The good thing is that she listens very well and does what I say particularly because she has found everything that I say to be true. She fully trusts my judgment. I'm happy it worked out that way. As for u Enigma, maybe you could try to cut down on the drinking. Try to spend quality time with the misses. Have fun, go out, relax somewhere. Try to relive high school memories. Try to remember why shes so special to u. Maybe you guys need to fall in love again. Relationships aren't easy as I've seen my fiends' relationships come and go. My girl is the first girl I ever had as a girl and i'm obviously doing something right. It's incredible how loyal she is. We as men are jerks in some aspects, and women as well....at least u r trying. That counts for something. Keep at it and remember that you are doing it for the most important person in your life.
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Post by Enigma on Oct 14, 2005 7:56:36 GMT -5
And for my son remember. I know as does my wife how hard it is to be in a broken home with one or neither of our parents. We really don't want that for him. I'm not saying we should stay together unhappy because of him, but it is worth a little extra effort right? As for the drinking it is really the only thing that keeps me sane, but I know I drink way too much and I'm seriously getting a bit sick of it to be honest. When the beer is not as much fun you know you've had too much, lol. Anyway, yeah i'm feeling much better now. We had an argument, (really heated one at that) but I think we both needed it to say what we needed to. Both had our problems but I've explained my side and she hers so we seem to be back on track. Coming up to Christmas we are a bit tight now, money wise, but a day together is planned for tomorrow while my sons away. It should be a good time for both of us....or I'll be back here "whining" and getting drunk, lol. Hopefully not
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Post by KnickMan2 on Oct 14, 2005 8:03:38 GMT -5
I feel bad for you Enigma, I personaly know how it is to be a kid torn between two parents, I am sure there is alot on Code X who do...I am here for you 100% as you are for me.
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Post by Enigma on Oct 14, 2005 8:06:21 GMT -5
Thankyou, I apreciate that. Hopefully it'll all be behind us now. Man, this thread got serious all of a sudden. I started this for a laugh (well for me to laugh anyways, lol). I'm sure I'll be happy again soon and post soem more random thoughts
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Post by sergio517 on Oct 14, 2005 8:18:35 GMT -5
It's no laughing matter to us Enigma. It is serious. Please don't divorce. I hope it's not over petty things. Do it for what's important. Both of you must work together. Don't lose that romance or love for eachother. Keep it strong for the family's sake. Everyone will benefit. I can't imagine what life would be like for a child to live with divorced parents. Then everything gets screwed up with a step mom and step dad and it all goes to shit. Hope you sort things out for the best Enigma. You are too young for this.
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Post by KnickMan2 on Oct 14, 2005 8:21:57 GMT -5
I know it sucks...Both parents telling you things to get you to like them more.There was bribes, I don't see why any kid should have to go though that, but then again not everyone will always be happy.
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Post by Enigma on Oct 14, 2005 12:16:17 GMT -5
Absolutly, when a childs involved your descisions need to be thought out. We seem to be over the worst of it now. Weve talked again and there are a few issues to iron out but really only small things. Actually it may of been for the best as we seem now to be getting on better than ever, laughing like we used to rather than being angry at each other. It feels good...as did an hour ago (use your imagination kids )...so at the moment I'm happy, and I know she is too. The day tomorrow is still planned and my son is definatly going away now for the night to his nans, so we will try and finish up our issues, but as I say they are minor. (something to do with me not switching off a light is one, lol. See minor issues) I apreciate the help, imput and general advice guys. It made me feel better talking about it and strangely stopped me getting angry about it all. Weird how simply talking about it can do that. If she could I'm sure my wife would thank you too, since she says I'm like "a bear with a sore head" when I'm "all pissy", lol.
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Post by -Brad v1- on Oct 14, 2005 12:26:18 GMT -5
Lmao, bear with a sore head? That's a pretty good one lol . But anyway, yes, here at Code X we're always ready to help those in need, especially someone who helped make this place the way it is today .
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Post by sergio517 on Oct 14, 2005 12:49:01 GMT -5
Enigma you ol rascal you.
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